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Sex?
If you are just looking for a way to meet "hot bi babes" or are cruising for recreational sex you will probably be disappointed and bored with the type of community we are culturing. Please review our Ethical Guidelines, expected of all members of this community.
Here are a few questions from Family Synergy that you might ask yourself to determine if you are at a point in your life where open and honest multiple relationships might work for you
- Are you comfortable sharing intimacy with people of diverse backgrounds?
- Do you treat members of both genders as your equal?
- Are you comfortable when people get close to you?
- Are you comfortable with nudity among friends?
- Are you comfortable saying "NO" when you feel it is in your best interest?
- Can you enjoy social gatherings without needing alcohol or drugs?
- Can you enjoy an intimate relationship without needing to control your partner?
- Can you be non-judgmental about the practice of open relationships among your friends?
- Can you talk to a potential sexual partner about safe sex?
If this site's emphasis on loving relationships is not what you were looking for, check out these other organizations. They generally focus more on sex than on relationships, though many have a friends-first policy. We have no judgments against these lifestyles. It's just a matter of focus.
Many non-monogamous people feel that they only want one deeply loving relationship with a single partner but, feel they want recreational-only sex with other partners. These organizations cater more to that lifestyle than polyamory. They may suit you better if the heavy emphasis on relationships in poly doesn't interest you as much.
The Lifestyles Organization
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